Daily Archives: November 20, 2006

Divorce and Thanksgiving

Today is Monday. Not just any Monday, but the Monday before Thanksgiving.

I work in a small law office. It’s the perfect size for keeping me busy (generally) and allowing me to learn. One thing I’ve learned over the past few years is business suffers Thanksgiving and Christmas weeks.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m happy that people are setting aside their differences at least two weeks out of the year and calling their lawyer is the last thing on their mind. However, like the question about the undertaker being happy if business is slow (otherwise wouldn’t he be hoping people die faster? Seriously, how do undertakers justify hoping that business will boom), should I be happy that people have set aside their differences this week and are focusing on being a family? Of course!

But experience has also taught me that next Monday all hell will break loose in this office. Fights will happen, and family’s will fracture and break on Thanksgiving Day. So this is my prayer this year – that next Monday will be a slow, incredibly dull day and that tempers will be given time to cool before the lawyers are called.

(But would it be wrong to hope for a few real estate closings or something to keep my hands busy? I would imagine not. =)

The Lost Entwife

First, where the title of this blog comes from.

I have an insane level of patience. Two months is a sneeze in time for me. It takes me two years to bring myself to the point of making a decision to pierce my ears. It took me 10 years for me to move 30 miles from my parents. I wasn’t always like this, but as time passes the more time it takes for me to make important (and some not-so-important) decisions. A friend of mine, as a result of me saying February is not that far from November for a visit) deemed me to be a “Lost Entwife” as a result.

After a period of a few years I finally made the trip this last weekend to reconnect with an old friend from my jr. high years. I met with Chris, his wife Becky, his two daughters, his brother, Andrew, and sister Rebecca. The last time I saw both Andrew and Rebecca they were toddlers. Amazing how things have changed.

My sister, Candace, and I made the trip to Iowa together and thoroughly enjoyed our time together in the car. Overall it was a fun weekend together, between a hair cut, a movie, a piano lesson, a parade, a long car trip and several episodes of Farscape.

I’m glad it’s the work week so I can finally relax before the holidays!