7 June, 2012Daily Archives

Armchair BEA – The Future of Book Blogging

It’s the final day of Armchair BEA – my first year participating, and I’ve had so much fun doing this and learned so much!  Thank you to everyone who has stopped by, commented, supported through Twitter, and contributed to an amazing week.  It’s been so much fun meeting new people, rediscovering old relationships, and building bonds with other like-minded people.

The suggested post for today is “Ask the Experts,” and while I don’t consider myself to be an expert by any means, I do have a few tips I’ve put together throughout my few years of book blogging.

  • Always be true to yourself.  Don’t take pitches for books you won’t read, or know you won’t like.  That isn’t fair to any party involved.  That said, if you take a pitch, then be fair.  If the book didn’t appeal to you from the outset, then don’t blast it in your review just because it wasn’t your thing.
  • If you do take a pitch or review a book you had high hopes for, and you didn’t like it, then be fair and open-minded in your review.  Why didn’t you like it?  Be as detailed as possible, and if possible, try to find something you did like about it.  Everyone involved will appreciate it.
  • Be kind to your fellow book bloggers – whether someone reads one book a month or one book a day.  This isn’t a race, or a competition.  We all love books, love talking about books, and the result should be that we love talking about them together.  In addition, spread the love – if you see a review of something you reviewed, comment on it, link back to it, direct traffic from your site to another’s.  It’ll be appreciated and you’ll start to build connections faster then you thought was possible.
  • Don’t stress out.  If life starts to get all crazy and muddled and you can’t find time to read or blog, chill out.  This isn’t your job – you can’t be “fired” from blogging.  Put up a quick notice on the blog.  Readers will care that you are swamped and updating them about it and will stick around.
  • Do review books – don’t get caught up in the trap that is memes.  If your blog is 90% memes and 10% substance then chances are you will frustrate people who are there because they want book recommendations, not comments on how pretty the cover is.
  • Do comment on other blogs.  If you feel overwhelmed by the number of blogs out there, weed down your reader to those you always stop on when you are scanning through, or clicking through with twitter links.  Filter out the ones that don’t interest you as a general policy and give quality feedback on the blogs that do.
  • Understand that there is a human being behind every blog – with thoughts, opinions, hopes, and dreams.  Everyone has a different goal, no matter how similar they might seem, and it’s important to respect those.
  • And most importantly – read!  Set aside time to turn off the computer, stay away from social media, eliminate distractions and lose yourself in a good book that you pick up because you want to.  Doing this will save you from burnout.  I’ve gone entire weeks where I’ve read nothing but books I felt like reading and put the schedule aside for another week.  It refreshed me and made my reviews all the stronger for it.
Thank you again for stopping by, and I hope to continue to see you after this week has come to an end.  It’s been a pleasure meeting you!

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Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov

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Reason for Reading:
  • This was the first choice for a book club that I joined for the summer.

I also recommend:

  • Anything by Kafka

Summary from GoodReads:

Awe and exhiliration–along with heartbreak and mordant wit–abound in Lolita, Nabokov’s most famous and controversial novel, which tells the story of the aging Humbert Humbert’s obsessive, devouring, and doomed passion for the nymphet Dolores Haze. Lolita is also the story of a hypercivilized European colliding with the cheerful barbarism of postwar America. Most of all, it is a meditation on love–love as outrage and hallucination, madness and transformation.

My Review:

This is not a book for the faint of heart. Wow, I don’t even know where to begin with a review on this one.

I was hoping to make the book club discussion centering on this title so I could get my thoughts in order – but alas, life stepped in and I was unable to make it so you all will have to suffer through my trying to get everything straightened out.

Vanity Fair, for its blurb on one edition of this book, says it’s “the only convincing love story of our century,” which, frankly, scares me to death. Why? Because the nitty gritty is that this love story is between an older man and a 12 year old girl.

That’s the surface of the story – but then there’s so much more to it than that. The narrator of this book is filled with so much remorse and justification and self-loathing that it’s nearly impossible to not be captivated by his voice and follow along the story. I was seriously disgusted with myself because, at one point, I was nearly as eager as he was when contemplating murder or scheming to get his way. That scared me – and Freud would have a field day with that (Yes, I read those essays of those Mr. Freud.)

It’s that type of writing, the one that binds and drags you along on a journey you really do not want to go on, that makes for great writing. And Vanity Fair’s blurb? Well, I think in a way it addresses that narrative voice, it’s harsh reality, bitterness and despair. Who can tell the heart where to love, or why it shouldn’t?

This is a tough read for many of those reasons and more. If you attempt it, I recommend you do so with a friend so these are the things you can discuss.

 

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